The Book of Sober

Just decided to stop?

Start here

You don’t need to read the whole internet tonight. Use this short path. Skip anything that doesn’t fit. The only non-negotiable step is safety if you’ve been drinking heavily.

Safety

If you drink heavily every day or nearly every day, or you get shaky, sweaty, anxious or sick without a drink, talk to a doctor or alcohol treatment service before you stop. Alcohol withdrawal can be dangerous. In the US: SAMHSA 1-800-662-4357 (24/7). Emergency: 911. More options on Help & safety.

  1. Make today simple

    Four rules for week one: don’t drink today; eat regularly; rest; plan your usual drinking time. Read Your first week sober and watch the short: 4 simple rules.

  2. Get pages in your hands

    Download free printable journal pages — craving log, reasons, tracker and more. Sign-up download: get the free pages.

  3. Prepare for cravings and evenings

    Handling cravings · Guided audio · Empty evenings · What to drink instead

  4. Decide what you’ll say

    What to say when offered a drink · Telling people you’ve stopped

  5. Optional: map your patterns

    Try the short self-reflection quiz (not a diagnosis) or the journaling prompts.

  6. If you want a full journaling guide

    The Book of Sober by Steven John walks your story, patterns, support and future at your own pace.

Browse all articles

Grouped by getting started, cravings, sleep & health, social life, and alcohol-free drinks.

Guided audio

Calm tracks for cravings, evenings, social events and setbacks.

Watch Shorts

Short practical videos from The Book of Sober on YouTube.

Help & safety

Helplines and when to get urgent care.